It's Sienna Grace. She had a bad reaction to the 7 shots she had to get in one day. I believe they were taking her to back to American doctors and may have ended up in the hospital. She has thalassemia (SP??) and they think the high fevers may have been too much for her. I'm so upset for this family. This is the last thing they should have to deal with over there.
Monday, March 8, 2010
please ask all your friends to help out
Tuesday, February 9, 2010
and its your turn to guess!
While Chase naps...
All morning he kept calling upstairs for Brianna not realizing she was in school so I took him to the bus stop to see where Braelyn went. He loved seeing the bus drive up and the driver just beamed at him! She was so happy to tell us how she heard about the little guy. As a trial we took him to dance class but had to wake him early from his nap. He had trouble moving in his winter coat, hat and mittens. My dear friend Susan gave me a winter coat, I’m blessed to have things from Rachel, Tonya, Sheri and Kathy! I gave most all of my kid clothes to friends over the years only to find I needed to start over and what a blessing to share things like this! Its like having sisters to pass things around with! I loved passing down stacks of little girl dresses to friends years ago then Lisa gave back a stack as did Terri…so we’ve made things go a long way!
We are making progress layer by layer here at home but I so wanted to mention all the kindness from friends who brought meals for the freezer! The C family left a bag with of treats, crayons and coloring book for each little one, the F and B family brought food as well and there is a huge box of juicy oranges and apples that make it so easy for me to just grab and share with the kids. At 4am yesterday I sat in bed snacking on an apple with two little mouths waiting for their bite at the apple…
And, all of you who have followed our journey, making comments and offering support have been what have kept us going! If we knew what we were going to face even just coming home, we really would have freaked! We haven’t had the time to explain the 32 hour ordeal. Believe me, it was not something anyone would look forward to if you knew just what you would have to do, in the amount of time, in the weary condition of your not so young body, with the amount of luggage you were hauling…and the mood of your travel companions. Poor Aus almost had a hissy fit when our first suitcase was 2.5 over the weight limit. Our friends got to average their 5 cases for 100 kg, but OUR airline had to be the one that wanted EACH case to weigh 20 kg. Here I am trying to calm my DH while unlocking and repacking our private belongings, dirty laundry and foreign treasures all in front of the line of other travelers waiting their turn. Thankfully our guide’s husband came along to assist our process and bridge the communication gap with the airline employee.
At least this time Aus didn’t say he wanted to get home…in the worst possible way! It was not nearly as challenging as last time!
Commercial break…time to dress the girls to go out in the snow…turn up the radio, grab a warm drink, check on the washer…
Well, Chase woke up but he’s letting Ba’ba hold him! And here comes the girls already…
Sunday, February 7, 2010
home and back to school tomorrow!
Home!!
Friday, February 5, 2010
We're on the way!
Time to head home!
Thursday, February 4, 2010
A day in 'real China'
A day in real China
With all the glamour of this ritzy hotel its easy to forget the people of this country who's children we are blessed to now call ours. After our 12 course breakfast and a quick change into romping clothes we met in the lobby at a very early 9am. For most people that isn't real early but to GET that far with three little ones you first have to get them to BED on time! RIGHT! I've gotten them spoiled rotten at bathtime. We fill the soaking tub with really warm water then turn on the rain shower head in the middle of the room to get it really steamy. Since they bring us a bottle of bath gel plus shampoo plus lotion plus one of condition and lastly, blue bath salts we can't let them all go to waste! And with our suitcase only being allowed to weigh 44# there is a limit to what can be toted home. So this ever frugal mama lets them dump a whole bottle of bathgel in the tub while letting Chase dump the bathsalts all over the shower floor to keep him busy until the water is ready. It keeps him quite intrigued at the color and texture then all the bubbles catch his eye. He loves to pour from one container to the other so I kept the last three water bottles for him to use plus the dipping cup we use to rinse their hair. Of course I didn't stop there. With all three of them in the tub we made water bombs. Chase can now count to three then I drop a filled bottle of water at arms length between them to splash as high as it can. Aus could hear the giggles in the next room. I love how all three have such funny belly laughs. I guess I shouldn't be teaching my kids "bad things"!
So, it was late, real late by the time I got them ready for bed and to sleep. The girls crash quite well but Chase is still being a bit hypervigilant. He bounces around on the bed and I do my best not to tickle him or get him wound up but its just so darn hard. With the light down he will lay next to me if I ask him but he's back to wiggling around again. He is a real snuggle bug when he takes his bottle and I plan to keep him on one just a couple times a day for the special snuggle time but when he's using his cup we'll let him decide if he wants a snuggle or not. Braelyn was still wanting to snuggle when she took juice or milk right up until our trip but on the road she hasn't insisted. I've still offered and tried to hold her by herself then with Chase at times so she still gets her special time.
Getting up at 7am was ugly. None of the kids wanted to be up at that hour. Brianna is usually cheerful when she gets up but for her to want to go back to bed we know we wore them out. We made the 9am meeting time to head to the Old Village tour and went in spite of it being the first rainy day. It was only a light drizzle, we took the umbrella from our closet and ponchos for insurance. Today we used the Greyhound type bus with a step up to the seats but some of the little ones miss that step. Its ugly let alone noisy when that happens. About 15 minutes of stop, start, swerve, don't look now but some van is coming our way in our lane against traffic then turning left on red across three lanes of traffic and we are there. No seatbelts, no car seats and no way to contain this very precious child you just traveled across the World to adopt. We got there just fine. Its not as depressing as the trip we took in Beijing two years ago to the WhuTong but close. The people were friendly and you can view the pictures but they do lead a simple life. Several locals would be walking along carrying a bag with fresh vegetables protruding and no where did we see anyone consuming junk food. I did hand out several pieces of wrapped candies to the children we came across and they dove for any that dropped to the floor which I hated to see.
A few of the doorways off the alley's we walked were decorated for being newly married or for the NEW YEAR with mean looking men in costume to scare away any bad spirits. One house was built of sea shells. Most did not mind their picture taken but one woman was hiding behind a book or something across the moat as the cameras were clicking. In a chair near the tiny grocery was a lady announcing she was over 100 years old!
With a trip back to the hotel to rest we went to the American Consulate for our swearing in Ceremony and were given a paper that will allow our guide to pick up our Visa for Chase tomorrow. Several of us hoped to get a bit more formula so we all took a stop at the near by Justco store. Most items are written in Chinese so it's a wonderful help to have our guides able to help us with our choice of purchases.
Eating pizza in our room for a simple dinner we bathed with bubbles and crashed with hopes of sleeping well. Tomorrow we pack, head over to Shaiman Island for the items friends have requested just hoping we are not over in weight. We should have sent something large for him but there is still time to get one more case if we need. I hear Aus's razor humming and Chase's breathing getting more regular so I'd better sign off before my fingers fall off.
Marie Ausdenmoore
http://ausfamily.blogspot.com
http://chasecomeshome.blogspot.com
Hi Everybody!
Picture post 11
Wednesday, February 3, 2010
Picture post 10
Tuesday, February 2, 2010
With each passing day I've tried hard to make a post but only after giving each of the children some of their special time. The last couple days have taken a toll with the pace continuing quite rapid. I'm amazed at how busy they plan our schedule knowing we just added a new family member! When is the child going to get into a "routine" or even get an uninterrupted nap? He's done quite well in spite but yesterday was his first fussy day as if it's been too much. I'm surprised I've managed to haul his almost 30#'s around EVERYDAY in the sling. He finally rode in the stroller for less than half an hour at the Zoo only. Then I wear about 20# in the backpack full of water bottles, juice cups, clothing and diapers but it seems to keep the load more balanced so this pack mule can walked upright. You should see the looks! Yesterday we ventured out after the Zoo trip hoping just to find plain paper for Brianna to draw on after using up the first 50 sheets we found in Korea, then all the hotel stationary!
Chase fell asleep in the sling drinking his bottle I held with my chin so I could hold a hand or push a stroller. It gets a little annoying when even kids point us out to parents. Its not like we have 3 Asian children who look nothing like us when they only have one dear child. I can't help but feel a bit guilty even though we CHOSE children with special needs and not the cute ones on the list! It took so very long to locate the market yesterday we almost gave up. Our guide said it was behind the Friendship Market past the Starbuck's coffee shop. Okay. We didn't know where the coffee shop was since there is one out to the left of the hotel. To cross the six lanes of traffic in this super busy metro China location you have to be OUT of your mind! Even crossing ONE lane makes your skin crawl dragging the children in front of fast moving traffic that does not slow or swerve out of your space. I hate to think how many close calls we've had. This location was picked because the Island is under construction and the curbs cut up but we are finding it the very same here. You try to cross the street but have to lift the stroller across a foot of chewed up pavers right up against traffic where you must be even more cautious.
This morning we had to wait for the call about our CA and it just came so we are free to venture out for more formula! These kids get a bit stir crazy and the few toys I brought have been helpful but only last so long more later...
Picture post 9
Monday, February 1, 2010
Hi Friends and family.doc
Hi Friends and family! This is Brianna. I miss you guys. I wish you could have come with us and I'm REALLY missing you REALLY much! We got to go to the sea in Qingdao, and I also got to touch a real oyster and starfish! We got to see a botanical garden (it's like a zoo for plants), we got to go to Shamain Island which was VERY fun! We got to go shopping at both Shamain Island, and at the Liwan market which is the biggest market in the world I think.
The hotels are great and the food is great too even the octopus we ate for dinner. Guess what floor I'm on? I'm on the 12th floor here. At the other hotel we were on 19. In Seoul we were on the 2nd floor.
I liked my home country. I brought some stuff back to show you. I can't wait to see you again.
Love - Brianna
Sunday, January 31, 2010
Sunday 1/31/2010 9 PM
Post 7!
Saturday, January 30, 2010
Picture post 6!
Braelyn's Thoughts!
the Medical Exam day
spam posts to the blog
Thursday, January 28, 2010
It has been so exciting each day as we get to do different things! I am having so much fun getting to know my new brother. The first day he as sad and scared. The people who cared for him are called foster parents. They loved him and treated him like their own son. They have one older son who is very tall. Chase had a small blue backpack with him when he came and inside was a photo album with their pictures. His foster father was holding him then the next photo he as riding on the shoulders of his foster brother, then the last was where he was sitting on the lap of his foster mother. He really likes to be held by my Mom. When he is scared or tired he puts his head on her shoulder or hides his face in her neck. She wears a baby carrier all day with him in it unless we are in our room but that is not much. He gets upset if she tries to put him down and hold her hand but we like having him up there so we can see him and he is safe. Mom put two coats on him with his hat and his clothes with another set of clothes under it and her coat buttons around him too. The old women in China will look close and scold her if he is not dressed warm enough. It is cold here but we are used to it. We are right by the Yellow Sea! You should look on the map. The sea comes right up to the sidewalk we were on today. Out in the water we can see two warships, a light house and got to walk out on the pier to the end. As we walked out there were lots of people down on the beach looking for sea creatures. I saw lots of barnacles, tiny sea crabs then I saw a REAL starfish! I did not bring boots to China but Mom let Daddy take me down the steps below to walk under the pier for a while. I love sea animals!
Braelyn and I walked holding our guide Ally's hand for a while so Daddy could take pictures and Mom was holding Chase. Lots of people had a small blanket laying out with treasures to buy. Necklaces out of stones, bracelets made out of shells, white shells carved into crosses and Chinese characters, then some really old looking Chinese people were selling bags of bread to feed the Seagulls. On the way out we got to buy a small back for one Yuan. 6.67 Yuan is $1. So when we see a price we divide it by 7 or to be exact Mom said to divide by 6.67 for the price. Most things do not cost much here. The next city we go to tomorrow has things even cheaper. I saw some really cute red boots that Mom said I might get to buy with my allowance money I saved but I have to wait until we get to Guangzhou.
Yesterday we were getting ready to call a friend Mommy met from an adoption group on the internet when she knocked on the door. Her name is Bernice and she was so very kind to us. She brought us gifts from this area, Qingdao where Chase was born. She told us about its history and how a lot of Korea people like to live here. It is right across the sea from Korea. When we go out people stare at us. They know I look Korea but my sister looks Chinese like my brother. Some people follow us to watch us and just stare a lot. Some even stop in front of us to take our picture but none of them ask. One man shook his hand by his hair then pointed to Mom. Daddy smiled and Mommy frowned. They do not know why we have so many children.
Our guide Ally will tell us what people are saying if we ask. At the Mansion we visited today people were asking her why we wanted children to adopt? They asked her in Chinese thinking we would not find out. They wanted to know why my parents adopted us if they had children of their own. Mommy got a bit mad when anyone says "children of their own" and tells them that ALL of us are hers! And their own children. They mean to say birth children but are not paying attention to what they should mean. Mommy asks me if it bothers me but I'm used to it. People always look at me because I am different except in Korea, I looked just like everyone else until they saw my parents. My parents laughed when one man asked if Mommy had a nanny to help her take care of us now that she will have Chase. He did not even know that Chase is the 6th child in our family. A lot of people tell Ally to tell us how grateful they are for us to adopt so many children who do not have a family. I am so glad we could adopt Chase! He is so cute and fun to play with. He reminds us of our friend at home we love a lot named Keaton. They both have such cute smiles and sweet cheeks to kiss.
When we drive to places a van picks us up in front of our hotel. There are so very many cars and even more taxi's. They are pushy. They do not stop if you are there and keep going. People drive scarey. A car was coming down the lane the wrong way. Daddy said just do not look. They honk and honk and honk at each other. Mommy was walking around a car in the grocery lot and a taxi honked at her and she had no place to go and the other two cars did not either. In the store it is full of people too. People want to help you a lot. Each part of the store has two people working there. Then you have to take it to the next place to pay for it and more people to work with you. Then we see some old people sitting on the sidewalk on an old rug with a cup of money in front of them. They look sad and I want to help them.
The front door to the hotel is a circle you push and it has a shelf of flowers in two parts of it you walk behind. We stay on the 19th floor in two rooms that attach. Our room is so very cool with a bunk bed with steps, a playrug area with blocks, table and chairs, an easle to draw on, two huge beanbag chairs and the bathroom is decorated too. This two rooms is called a suite and used just for families who are adopting. They bring us a bowl of fresh fruit each day. We even have a doorbell they ring! It has a coffee pot to boil water so Mommy makes us hot tea. When we brush our teeth we can not let any water touch our mouth expect the boiled water or water from the store.
Tomorrw we will ride the airplane to Guangzhou and it will have Florida type weather! We had to bring two types of clothes but our suitcase can only weigh 44# or we pay extra money. It took a long time for us to put everything in our suitcases and weigh them. Then Chase tried tos tand on the scales too. We laughed at him and he danced! I hope he is not scared to ride the airplane. We like flying places
but now Mommy says I need to fly into bed.
Wednesday, January 27, 2010
We visited his orphanage
Monday, January 25, 2010
Monday 1/25/10 at 11:45 PM
God's little Angel
Bathrooms of the World
Sunday, January 24, 2010
Monday morning 1-25-10 8:15
Pictures
Guess who's sleeping on Mommy's lap!
Saturday, January 23, 2010
We now leave Korea for China!
time to leave Korea!
Friday, January 22, 2010
My visit with my Foster Mother!
When I first saw her I thought she is beautiful. I went up to her she seemed kind and special. I hugged her and she seemed like someone I remember from a long time ago. I am glad we got to see her. She seemed to like me and several times she said I was beautiful, that my family is taking good care of me which makes her feel really good about having to let me go. She said it was especially hard to give me up, that I was an easy and loving child. Seeing me now makes her over joyed! She patted my cheek and held my hand.
This morning we ate breakfast in the kitchen that had eggs in the refrigerator for us to use. The stove had gas pipes that Daddy would have to turn on but we could not find a pan so we used the microwave. But we could not read the dial so we had to guess. There was big bread slices in a bag and orange juice. Then we walked down the street for a couple hours. It was really cold. There were lots of cars and people. We were the only ones in red coats. Most walked on the left side of the street but in America we walk on the right. The sidewalks had lots of bumps and steps that were uneven. Braelyn would have tripped a lot if Mom was not holding her hand.
Then it was lunchtime and Mom wanted us to go to a REAL Korean restraunt. It was hard to ask for a map at the guesthouse desk, they do not understand much English. It did have places listed on it so Mom picked the Bono Bono and it cost 50,000 to eat! We did not know what to expect but the lady at the desk spoke some English. Braelyn needed the bathroom but when we asked the lady said up and to the right. She should have said around to the left. Mom and Dad are being really brave doing all of this not knowing what to expect each time we do anything. Standing in the airport last night made us stop and realize how much we take as normal at home. Here we were, standing at the gate of the Korean International airport a whole world away, do not speak any of the language, do not know a soul in Seoul, have no idea who is going to pick us up or exactly where he will be…but we were all okay with that! Just because they want me to tour my birth country. Some people might have freaked. Some might not have wanted to do this, but Mom just told me its just like when you adopt a child or have a baby. Your whole life changes. Babies do not speak the same language and not all kids are the same.
I’m getting sleepy but I’m hungry so we have to walk back to another restaurant to eat. I hope I can stay away to see what I’m eating. My vacation so far is really fun but makes me tired.
Thursday, January 21, 2010
The 12 hour part of the trip
When we landed in San Francisco we did not have time to look at anything but the numbers on the gates. We had about an hour to get to our next flight but it was a long walk and the board did not tell us which way to the International gates. We got to jog along and get some energy out. There were long escalators that did not go up, but like a sidewalk. It was fun walking fast on them because it made us go even faster! At the end we jumped and it felt funny landing on the floor that was not moving.
As we boarded the flight crew greeted us and smiled real big when they saw we were littler. I think they like it when children ride. They gave Braelyn and I flight wings and a card showing this was her first trip back to China and mine to Korea! Later the Stewardess would bring us special treats that no one else got like a little plate of fresh fruit on a tray with a white cloth. I felt like a Princess! Braelyn had fun feeding me with her fork after Mom cut it up. After we slept a long time she brought us a hot towel to wipe our faces saying the air is dry. I can still hear lots of people snoring behind us. We are trying not to laugh too loud when Mommy teases us. I watched the movie “Cloudy with a chance of Meatballs” on the screen on the chair with headphones. It made me laugh outloud and Braelyn too.
If I get tired I curl up on Mom’s arm or over on Daddy’s lap. The armrest between the chairs lifts up so as long as I keep my seatbelt on I feel safe. I am so excited to be going back to where I was born. I don’t know just what to say to my Foster mother, just that she is so special and I will always remember her for taking care of me until I got to be with my forever family. I hope I can bring back some things for my class. I miss you all already and wish you could be with us on this exciting trip!
Sitting in a chair for so long is not as hard as I thought but it’s a long time to try to find fun things to do. The noise is loud, like a big, very big fan. Sometimes there are bumps or weird noises when they put the wings at a different angle or let the wheels down to land. Our last landing was a bit bumpy. We bounced when we hit the ground and the Captain said he was sorry. We seemed to be in a hurry and had to wait a long time to even leave that airport. Mom and Dad kept checking the flight schedule and counting how much time between flight hoping we would not miss the next flight. They said it can happen that we might need to really run like on Home Alone. At least we didn’t leave anyone home alone. My brother’s friend is going to stay in our house with our dogs so they don’t get lonely. Mom showed her which plants need water and how to fill her bird feeders. Mom has some friends who are going to check on things and said for Carl to call if he needs anything. No one can call us. We have to turn off our cell phone so it doesn’t mess up the airplane electronics. After we left California Daddy said it will cost a lot of money to use our phone but we can use our computer. We have Skype, a computer program you can talk to someone on Mom’s laptop and its only 2 cents a minute but her phone is $2 a minute!
They just made a ding noise and the Captain came on telling everyone to fasten seatbelts. I better turn this off for now, its getting bumpy!
We are IN the air!
Then, we went around the corner to security to put our coats each in a bin, our backpacks each in a bin, taking out any electronics or liquids to let them be examined as well as taking off our shoes in order to go through the metal detector. Once they decided we had nothing dangerous we had to put it all back on and in its place.
Walking to our gate we noticed where to find a bathroom and place to get water. You are not allowed to bring your own along so we bought one for the girls to share and some cashews. Sitting for a couple hours, it was soon time to depart!
Time to leave!
We are IN the air! Its now almost 1pm there at school on Wednesday and Brianna and Braelyn are having a snackish lunch. We left the house at 5am. Our friend who used to teach at Taylor HS picked us up and drove us to the airport. We pulled our 4 suitcases along with our 4 backpacks, one on each of us. The check in gate was not far and we were the first in line. They locked our suitcases then put them on the belt to travel back to where they will be loaded on the airplane. Each one got a sticker that shows who we are and where we will be going. We hope our suitcases take the same trip we do but sometimes that does not happen. We put some clothes mixed in each case just in case.
Then, we went around the corner to security to put our coats each in a bin, our backpacks each in a bin, taking out any electronics or liquids to let them be examined as well as taking off our shoes in order to go through the metal detector. Once they decided we had nothing dangerous we had to put it all back on and in its place.
Walking to our gate we noticed where to find a bathroom and place to get water. You are not allowed to bring your own along so we bought one for the girls to share and some cashews. Sitting for a couple hours, it was soon time to depart!
Tuesday, January 19, 2010
Hello to our friends who are waiting for their sister too!
Hello to MH students today at the library!
It will take an hour after leaving Seoul to get to Dilian China to change planes then to Jinan China to meet our little guy. A couple days later we will take a train ride out to his orphanage in Qingdao, near the Yellow Sea. I hope you can look at it closely on a map! If it was summer we could have gone to the beach!
The man at our adoption agency sent us an email today saying we may get to meet our new son at our hotel right when we are checking in rather than going to meet him at the Civil Affairs office. We are so very excited to get him.
Coming home we will leave from Guangzhou China over to change planes in Hong Kong. Then it will be 11 hours to get to California, then 4 hours to get to Chicago, then over 1 hour to get to Cincinnati's airport. Last time we traveled to China we went straight there and the plane flew over the North Pole straight from Chicago to Bejing China and it was over 19 hours of straight flying!
Brianna is very excited to be leaving soon! She is practicing how to use the video camera and how to go through security at the airport. He Dad is pretending he is the security guard and how they will have their bags checked. We are having a simple dinner so we can finish re checking on what we have packed so it is ready for in the morning. I hope we did not forget anything...I wish we could bring YOU with us, we will really miss you but we are so happy you will be there watching our blog. Mrs Ausdenmoore will not be in the library for at least 3 weeks now so I am asking for you to be really good for Mrs. P for me. I want to know you were really good for your teacher Ms. L. then Ms. C
I hope you can send me your questions! Thank you for your interest.
Sunday, January 17, 2010
We went to Church to pray for our trip
A real nice man who is always standing at the back of Church let us sit in his pew. He likes to talk to my Dad. There were two little girls next to us with their mother and Mom let Braelyn share her coloring books with them. After Mass the lady thanked Mom and told her she teaches at the school I will go to next year. In front of us there was a family with three children from China. We got to meet them and it was fun. One girl is close to my age and one is a year older than Braelyn and their brother is 5. They have two older American brothers too. Mom invited them to come visit us when we get home from our trip.
When we got home Daddy cooked us Onion Eggs and Toast. He was nice to give me toast without butter just like I prefer. Braelyn and I got to play on the computer together while Mom finished cleaning. Now we have to go clean up our playroom in the basement. If we do a good job without fussing we get quarters to put in the Jelly Belly machine! I better go clean!
Friday, January 15, 2010
We leave for Korea on Wednesday!
Braelyn was born in Yangchun, China. There are too many people in China so sometimes a family can not keep their baby. Babies are taken to a place called an orphanage where lots of ladies called nannies take care of them. The baby cribs in China are usually metal with a board instead of a mattress. To keep them warm they are kept wrapped in thick quilts but they are not able to move around much. We went to China to adopt her and bring her home. She was 17 months and 17 pounds. With not enough money they only feed the babies milk with cereal in it. They have to prop the bottle and cut a big hole in the nipple so the babies do not need to be held and will eat quickly. We had to teach her how to be held, how to sit up then how to walk.
Chase was born in Qingdao China. He lived in an orphanage for 6 months then a nice foster family took him to their home to wait for his family to come adopt him. He will be two the day we meet him. We have to go to several appointments to do his adoption then travel to another city to finish. It will take over two weeks until we can come home with their new brother.
Korea will be our first stop to meet Brianna's foster mother who we wish to thank for taking such good care of our daughter.
I now need to go call the travel agent to finish booking our tickets then pack our suitcases. I hope you can visit our blog each day to see what the girls did that day. Ask your parents permission to do this and to help you to look up anything you have questions about. We hope you will post comments so we know you are reading our story. Thank you! We are happy to share this exciting journey with you!
Mrs Ausdenmoore, who helps you in the library on Tuesday in Ms Cecardo's class and Brianna's mother, and Braelyn in Ms. Hoffman's classroom.